
That would be not today, not tomorrow, but the next day, she will be turning FIVE!!! She is excited, I am in denial, we are all ready to party and the countdown is on!

I'm a sucker for a good episode of Little House on the Prairie. Growing up it was one of my favorite shows and Kim, Clint and I could often be found "playing" Little House. It was perfect after all, I would be the oldest sister Mary, Kim would be the middle sister Laura, and Clint made the perfect Baby Carrie (with a bonnet and skirt you would have never known he was a boy). My dads recliner was transformed into a covered wagon and off we would go!
So lately my afternoons have gotten a whole lot better because the Hallmark channel is now airing Little House on the Prairie re-runs daily. For Carter's "rest time" we watch an episode (okay usually we watch two) and she is loving it as much as I do! It is a little embarrassing to admit but I usually shed a tear or two by the end because, let's face it, there is nothing quite as endearing as a sweet family of five facing the trials of farm life while sharing a log cabin!
The other day we were watching an episode called "Country Girls". The Ingalls family is pretty new to Walnut Grove and it is Laura and Mary's first day of school. They meet the infamous Nelly Olsen (which let's face it we all have a little Nelly in us) who snubs her nose at them every chance she gets and says (in a disgusted tone) "Country Girls." Ma and Pa, being the good parents they are, suggest the girls kill her with kindness. Which is all fine and good until Ma has a run in with Nellie's mother Mrs. Olsen. Let's just say that is is one of my ALL TIME FAVORITE episodes and I insist you watch the highlights (it's not too long, and you may want to pause the music player at the bottom before watching)...
But, if you don't have time at least watch the 30 second version...
As a kid I wanted to be just like Laura and Mary...but I find as an adult I want nothing more than to be just like Ma. Because, while I would be the first to admit I've had my "Nellie moments", I also have a bit of country girl in me too (the proof is in the picture)...

Maybe I can get Carter to start calling me Ma...we'll have to work on that!



While I don't get to take cool trips to San Francisco for chic business conferences like my sister...or Coach a bunch of smelly high school boys like my dad (pretty sure I wouldn't want that job!) I am plenty busy with my own sweet babies right here at home.
My job may be a little (okay a lot) less glamorous, but it is my job. It is what I spend all my time doing and what I pour my heart and soul into. Sure, I have other things that I dabble in or like to devote some of myself to here and there, but if you were to do a pie chart of my life time spent "mothering" my kids would definitely be the biggest piece. I love it, really I do, but it isn't always the most glamorous of occupations. There isn't always a lot of "credit" being handed out, and the results may not be clearly seen for another 20+ years or so. And, honestly speaking, let me just admit I sometimes long for a pat on the back, an atta' girl, or heck while I'm dreaming even a paycheck!
But when my sister shared my dad's quote I realized something...none of that really matters. Like most things in life our family is a team effort. The more time I spend contributing and the less time I spend looking for credit the better off we'll be. Which means that if I forget about being "noticed" and "recognized" for my efforts the sky is the limit!
I'm thinking this may be my new favorite quote and it just happens to come from one of my favorite people. Thanks dad, you're a pretty smart guy.